I once lived in a high-rise condominium where everyone kept to himself, and all was peachy with the world. But there was one night when I received a phone call from a neighbor, informing me once again that my television was on “too loud” and he can’t sleep. I was watching an old movie, as I usually did in the early evenings if I stayed home. This was a recurring performance on his part, a kind of neighborhood opera in which he played both the aggrieved victim and the self-appointed Sheriff of Decibels. At that point, I was starting to wonder whether the sound was actually carrying or whether my neighbor simply enjoyed the thrill of a good complaint because the room where my television is did not butt up against his bedroom, but against his butler’s pantry.
Here’s the twist: I could hear his television, too. Talk shows, game shows, dramatic monologues, the whole cinematic buffet. And yet I’ve never felt compelled to call him and deliver a noise citation. I’d assume he was just… living. Watching things. Being a person in a building full of other people doing what people do to live. It’s part of the deal when you choose communal living over a cabin in the woods on ten acres.
Still, every time my phone lit up with his name on the screen, I rolled my eyes. At that time of evening, it could not be a friendly hello. It’s always a report, as if he was monitoring my condo with a sound meter and a clipboard.
I played with the idea that conducting an experiment or two. I thought of turning down the volume to a whisper—barely audible even to me—and wait. Would my phone ring? I don’t know, but I was willing to bet a dime to a donut that he was hearing phantom noises, or he had superhuman hearing, or perhaps the echoes of his own television bounced around his condo like a boomerang.
There’s a special kind of fatigue that comes from dealing with neighbors who are both hypersensitive and oblivious to their own habits. It’s like being scolded by someone about your manners when they are chewing food and smacking loudly with their mouth open. You want to point it out, but you know it won’t land.
So, I’ve reached a conclusion: either my television had mystical projection abilities, or my neighbor developed a hobby of policing imaginary disturbances. I continued living my life at a reasonable volume.
And honestly, at that point, the only thing louder than my television was that special kind of comedy. Personally, I think he had his wig on too tight.
Susan Marie Molloy 